It does matter!

Since Cyrano de Bergerac we are aware that kiss is nothing else but a sweet secret that we whisper into the mouth instead of the ears. Based on that we could believe that kiss is the basis of every intimate moment - but on the contrary. Many of us forget its importance, although lips hide more sensitivity than many other body parts. "Women say they can tell if a relationship is going to work after the first kiss, after the first night of kissing," he says. "They just get a feeling, an intuition."
A passionate kiss doesn't just burn calories but also eases hunger and arouse more pleasure than a box of chocolates. Kiss was forbidden for a long time, and just the mentioning of it was a severe breach of decorum. But the touch of two lips, the playfulness of a soft tongue or some gentle bites can fan the flames more than any other teasing game. And believe or not: it is more likely to get a disease by shaking hands than by kissing.

8 Health Benefits of Kissing:
  • Relieve Cramps and Headaches
  • Burn Calories
  • Reduce Your Blood Pressure
  • Boost Your Self-Esteem
  • Fight Cavities
  • Naturally relaxes you
  • Tone Your Facial Muscles
  • Release Your Happy Hormones
2016-03-07 14:05:57


a fresh pick

Everybody is familiar with menthol, but very few had actually used it during foreplay. Menthol has a cool soothing effect on the skin and your body's senses. However it has a bit different effect if you use it with your partner. Take some mints into your mouth and excite her (his) skin with your cool kisses. Lips, nipples and the neck are very sensitive to such effect. If you use mint during oral sex that will make it longer to come as well as a very intense orgasm. As with any other stimuli avoid to use it too often otherwise the 'magic' will disappear. Menthol is also good for spicing up a blowjob. How? Menthol causes a similar sensation of ice, but without risking to lose the erection due to excessive chilliness. Put a mint in your mouth or take one mentholated cough drop and give a blowjovb to your partner like that. Believe us, it will have a good effect and your partner will like it! menthol can work wonders and enhance the sexual experience like you wouldn't believe.
2016-03-07 13:46:22

Bites are part of the play

Nothing can be as beautiful on a woman's body as a crescent shaped bite, according to Indians. However, their famous book about the art of love also tells that bites are most stimulant if they come along with soft kisses. This state can be questioned, of course, but bites, gentle or harsh, are part of the game and can be just as thrilling as touches. Mind that soft body parts, like inner thighs or neck, should be taken only slightly between our teeth, while stronger spots, like shoulders can be bitten more passionately. In case we would prefer the second way, we should pay attention so the marks we leave shall be visible for us only, but should be covered by clothes from strangers' eyes.

There are a few basic guidelines you should follow if biting your partner turns you on:

Make Sure Your Partner's Into It
This should go without saying, but if your partner doesn't want to be bitten and says so, don't do it. It's not for everyone. Biting a willing partner can be an exciting form of foreplay. Biting an unwilling partner is assault. Giorgio Chiellini, it's safe to say, wasn't into it.


No Surprises
A surprise bite is never going to be that erotic for anyone

Never Break Skin
Make sure to mind the STDs (sexually transmitted diseases), it is easy to catch anything or give it to your partner.


Location, Location, Location
Some parts of the body are more sensitive are prone to harm than others. "A lot depends on the spots you bite, and what time during the act that you're biting," Waxman says. "Biting on the nipple while it's highly aroused might not do as much damage as biting somebody on a sensitive spot on the neck."


Work Your Way Up
Start out with the lightest of bites, or even with pseudo-bites way before bearing down with your molars. "Start by brushing your teeth against someone's neck or skin, then work your way up to something more," Waxman says. "Nibbling is a great way to gauge what somebody thinks about your teeth on their skin. Before committing to a full-on chomp, tease with your teeth and let them know you're taking a taste of them. They may say no to teeth." And as always, if things escalate beyond the point your partner's comfortable with, stop immediately.

2016-02-18 17:37:12


there's something charming and exciting in being helpless

Although everyone would probably exclaim against it, Almost all of them admit for themselves that there's something charming and exciting in being helpless. Knowing that the other one can do anything, whatever he/she wants, makes you just as horny as anxious about it.
That' why bondage sex is one of the ancient games. We can use a rope, a scarf or belt but it's very important that we do it really carefully.On one hand we avoid any possible damages, while on the other hand we increase excitement. We can tie both hands, legs, even the body or bond him/her to any proper things (bedstead or a pillar). Add some role play to make the situation even hotter. Don't forget under any circumstances, that the game is about giving mutual pleasure so be careful with playing helpless.
2016-02-18 19:01:00

The Men's rules

Women often list rules for men they live with, either he is a boyfriend, a husband or a flatmate. The constant toilette seat issue, dirty socks left on the floor, unwashed plates, accidentally forgotten birthdays, anniversaries, burping and farting loud, snoring during the night etc. Each gender has the unique characters, however when a male and a female lives together it is not easy to bear each other's habits. Men always hear about the rules that they should follow according to women. Now it is time to list men's rule for women :) Please share your feedback, your own list by a comment. Thank you!

Men's Rules:
  1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
  2. Men are not mind readers.
  3. Crying is blackmail.
  4. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
  5.  "Yes" and "No" are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
  6. Come to us with problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
  7. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days.
  8. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.
  9. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
  10. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
  11. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to during commercials.
  12. All men see in only 16 colours. Peach, for example, is a fruit not a colour. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
  13. If ask what is wrong and you say 'Nothing', we act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
  14. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear...
  15. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine... really.
  16. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as football or motor sports.
  17. You have enough clothes.
  18. You have too many shoes.
  19. I am in shape, round is a shape!
  20. Thank you for reading this, yes I know, I'm sleeping on the couch tonight' but did you know men don't really mind that' It's like camping?
Members, do you have any other rules for women not listed above? Models, any opinion about this article? :)  Please share your thoughts by commenting on the article.
2016-02-02 14:24:21

5 stress-free minutes each day

We are in a rush constantly, we are late, we overthink and overreact a lot of things. Earning money, taking care of our family is not easy indeed and make most people stressfull. Stress if part of our everyday life, sometimes it helps to make the best of things we planned however in many cases it sweeps you off your feet, you lose control and it defeats you. Stress is something that challenges us and helps us grow, we often hear it. It is not easy to control it, however if you try to devote at least 5 minutes per day on yourself, you can easily avoid being overstressed. Do anything you like and which is out of the daily routine.

Finally here are some good tips on how to reduce stress in your life:
  • Know what you are trying to achieve and why
  • Do less by focusing exclusively on what's important
  • Think progress, not perfection
  • Cleanse your heart every night
  • Let go of shoulds: 'Should' and 'Supposed to' thoughts can lead to a lot of heartache. Instead, ask what you can do about the situation that is actually here.
  • Purge untrue thoughts
  • Reduce comparison: comparison and competition are never ending. What else could you do with all of that mental energy they take up.
  • Expect some stress, accept it and let go of it 
  • Be kind to your body
  • Do one nice thing for yourself every day
What stress-reducing techniques do you use? Feel free to share yours below by making a comment on the article
2016-01-27 15:41:30

Relaxing with a bath ball

After a few days of nastiness it is advised to take a break and turn towards more restful activities, and as the weekend nears it is time to think about small little things that we miss during the weekdays. It can be an intimate hot bath together, preceded by attentive preparations. On times like this candles, soft towels are some of the basic ingredients. But it is worth shuffling some playfulness among these moments as well. And what is the most fitting than a bath-ball. They come in different scent and material and they are not to be ignored in aspect as well, when these balls fizz, rotate in the water, sometimes sparkle or dissolve flower petals. If you are creative you can make your own bath bomb at home. The key ingredients in a bath bomb are sodium bicarbonate, citric acid, essential oils, and color. They may also contain some miscellaneous goodies. You can find good recipes on internet, like this one.

If you use bath bombs and you would like to share your ideas, tips do not hesitate to make a comment on the article below.
2016-01-27 13:52:06

Playing cards

A deck of cards can give you more than a lucky poker party or a tool for impressive magic tricks. You can use those cards to play a little game with your partner. Shuffle the deck and draw 9 cards, as we as you partner. Both of you place the cards on the sheet or onto a table forming 3 rows and 3 columns. The upper cards symbolize left hand, head and right hand, the middle cards represent left breast, belly, right breast, and the bottom cards are for left leg, groin and right leg. Pick a card turn it up and your partner turn his / her card in the same position. The higher card wins the match and the looser should tease the body part of the winner represented by the card. Take turns until all the cards are up. It is up to you to restart a game or you dive deeper :)
2016-01-27 13:42:26

20 tips for a healthier and happier life

It's all about career and success these days. No matter what we achieve, it's never enough, we always strive for more. In this hectic life we often forget to stop for a moment to care about our family, environment and in many cases we even forget to deal with ourselves. We do not live in an easy world however you still can make your life happier and helthier with easy things. A lot of people think that without money, they can't eat healthier, get quality exercise, or have a stress-free life. The truth is: there are many ways to be healthy and happy without spending a lot of money. Here are some proven tips to help you increase your ability to intentionally cultivate greater levels of happiness and peace of mind.

- Try to make at least three people smile each day
- What other people think of you is none of your business
- Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
- Don' waste your precious energy on gossip
- Don't take yourself too seriously. No one else does.
- Spend time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6
- Dream more while you are awake
- Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about
- You do not have to win every argument. Agree to disagree
- Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. So, get rid of those ill feelings
- No one is in charge of your happiness except you
- Read more books than you did last month
- Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch
- Sleep for 8 hours a day
- Smile and laugh more
- Drink plenty of water. 'Drink at least 2 Litres of Water Per Day."
- Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past
- However a good or bad a situation is, it will change
- Call your family often
- No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up

Feel free to share your opinion by making a comment on the article. New tips, suggestions are also welcome on how to live a happier and healthier life!
2016-01-15 11:32:36

The Real Man

All girls wait for the 'Real Man', those who are single and even those who are already in a relationship. What is the real man like? There are millions of replies from females what the real man should be like. Most of women say that the 'Real Man' is the kind of man a woman wants to give her life to, is one who will respect her dignity, who will honor her like the valuable treasure she is. However a lot of girls think that a 'Real Man' doesn't exist, he is impossible to find. Others do not want someone like him. Additionally, some men think they are the very definition of a 'Real Man'. Other men feel there is no such thing. One thing is true, though: men who think they are the very definition of a 'Real Man' and those who think they are not are both very often wrong.

Unfortunately today's tendency is that manhood is reduced to sex drive and muscles and money. In fact masculinity is far away from that, this is not what women look for necessarily.
Dear girls, what are the characteristics of the real man for you? Share your ideas with commenting on the article below:
2016-01-05 14:26:03

Light as a feather

Weekly tips for a better sexperience

Have you ever felt the shiver running up on your spine? Do you believe or not our skin is much more sensitive to light touches and pressure than anything else. You can turn this phenomena to sensual foreplay. Take a feather, a small and soft brush. Draw lines and curves along her or his body the sensitive areas (wist, groin, breast etc.) as long as you can, then slowly approach it without actually touching it. You can make it even more joyful by using cold or warm liquids, like cold water or warm honey. By switching the cold and warm sensation you can really send that shiver up on her or his spine! Don' t forget the longer you paint, the greater the pleasure will be at the end of the play.
2015-12-14 16:47:23

Wild beats

The power of music

We dare to say that during intimate plays couples mostly prefer silence; while noises, voices only pointlessly distract attention. However, this is not necessarily true for the music, which is an excellent help in creating the right atmosphere.A soft, slow-flowing piano piece pleasantly stupefies and creates intimacy, while an elementary piece dominated by drums can arouse the desires and turn into wild act. So it is worth choosing something that is on the same wavelength with our mood and environment. As a preparation we can even select a few songs, pieces and listen all along together, discuss what kind of a situation, feeling, Tingling it reminds us of - maybe the theory will be integrated into practice, too.
2015-12-16 15:30:09


Sharing fantasies

There are situations in life, where words are mostly just barriers and we prefer to leave them behind. However, in the right way they can have their place during the intimate moments too. Consider as a part of the play and while we are caressing our partner or kissing her, say a compliment about the given part of the body, maybe share one of our fantasies which is connected to it. It is important that giving pleasure also motivates us here, so we should carefully unfold our fantasy, or during a previous conversation clear up how far we can go.

2015-12-16 16:17:20
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